"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lonliness??

PEACEDJ

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Hey guys do you feel that because you guys are donjuans and you have a bigger knowledge of women, that you go for the gorgeous chicks who take a little more time to date than say the moderate chicks, and so you feel a little left out or a little bit lonely when all your buddies have g/f. For instance, I don't date chicks exclusively, I just get to the point where I can have sex with her and then move on... don't want to be a prick but i dont wnt to commit to a girl becuase my expectations for a perfect g/f are so high. Plus, when I see a hot chick, I talk to her go for a close, but then again, few minutes later you see another hotter chick.... and the cycle continues. So to sum it up, do you fellas think that by being a don juan who doesn't committ very often, you feel a little leftout and lonely during the times when you buddies bring a g/f?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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a girl doesn't have to be your girlfriend for you to bring her somewhere - if all your buddies are with the girls anyway, bring that girl you're fvcking, it's all the same difference.
 

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I'm not sure how you would feel left out? The girl you are having sex with can do other things than sex with you.

Someone with a LTR just has sex with the same person.
 

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Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word):p a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...
 

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word):p a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...
i have the problem of thinking with my ****
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You're right, i should stop worrying about what others will think about the girl I'm with and start thinking with my head... not my ****.... sounds a little tough though :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by PEACEDJ
You're right, i should stop worrying about what others will think about the girl I'm with and start thinking with my head... not my ****.... sounds a little tough though :cheer:
ur a cheerleader now :O
 
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