"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lonliness??

PEACEDJ

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Hey guys do you feel that because you guys are donjuans and you have a bigger knowledge of women, that you go for the gorgeous chicks who take a little more time to date than say the moderate chicks, and so you feel a little left out or a little bit lonely when all your buddies have g/f. For instance, I don't date chicks exclusively, I just get to the point where I can have sex with her and then move on... don't want to be a prick but i dont wnt to commit to a girl becuase my expectations for a perfect g/f are so high. Plus, when I see a hot chick, I talk to her go for a close, but then again, few minutes later you see another hotter chick.... and the cycle continues. So to sum it up, do you fellas think that by being a don juan who doesn't committ very often, you feel a little leftout and lonely during the times when you buddies bring a g/f?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BrotherAP

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a girl doesn't have to be your girlfriend for you to bring her somewhere - if all your buddies are with the girls anyway, bring that girl you're fvcking, it's all the same difference.
 

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I'm not sure how you would feel left out? The girl you are having sex with can do other things than sex with you.

Someone with a LTR just has sex with the same person.
 

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Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word):p a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...
 

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Originally posted by Badmannaz
Okay you have to understand that a Don Juan is not nesseccarily<--(can't spell that word):p a player but a MAN a confident strong MAN. I personally understand that being a player you feel lonely. I'm a one women man and all i want is one. And usually REALLY REALLY good G/F are not the incredibly phyiscally incredible chicks..it's those girls who can mentally attract you along with beautiful looks (well atleast for me) Stop thinkin with your D**k abd start thinkin with your head. You'll find the girl and usually it's the girl you usually don't go for...
i have the problem of thinking with my ****
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PEACEDJ

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You're right, i should stop worrying about what others will think about the girl I'm with and start thinking with my head... not my ****.... sounds a little tough though :cheer:
 

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Originally posted by PEACEDJ
You're right, i should stop worrying about what others will think about the girl I'm with and start thinking with my head... not my ****.... sounds a little tough though :cheer:
ur a cheerleader now :O
 
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