"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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theGAME50

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i have been in a LTR for more than a year with the most amazing girl in the world. she is so perfect and we both want to be with each other forever. unfortunately, i met her at a very young age. i am 19 and so is she.

i talk to a lot of girls, and a lot of them want to hang out with me, but of course i always say i cant because i have a girlfriend. i dont want to get caught and lose a great thing.

half of me is happy with the most amazing girl in the world. and i really want to be with her forever

but the other half doesnt know what to do because what about all the other girls in the world. if i marry this girl, am i gonna wonder what else i coulda gotten? what if there is one better? what if i cheat and then i lose the best thing in the world? will i regret it when im 30?

should i just go with other girls without my main g/f knowing? i wouldnt take any risks. id just go with girls when i know i could get away with it... what should i do please help
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From my experience LTR's started at a young age typically dont work out in this day and age.

If your having these feeling of whether the grass is greener, i can also bet you your gf is too.

My advice is see as many girls as you can before your 25 because if you do marry at a young at it will end in divorce cause you will regret not getting more experience with girls and it's better to do it now than trying to do it in your 30's.....
 
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it's always good to be curious.

however if you want to keep your gf, i would advise against it.
But if you choose to date other women, no matter how hard you try to hide it she'll find out one way or another eventually.

you know what you must do...
 
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What do you want to hear old mate?????

It's your life make a decision and live with it and stop bittching....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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