"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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theGAME50

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i have been in a LTR for more than a year with the most amazing girl in the world. she is so perfect and we both want to be with each other forever. unfortunately, i met her at a very young age. i am 19 and so is she.

i talk to a lot of girls, and a lot of them want to hang out with me, but of course i always say i cant because i have a girlfriend. i dont want to get caught and lose a great thing.

half of me is happy with the most amazing girl in the world. and i really want to be with her forever

but the other half doesnt know what to do because what about all the other girls in the world. if i marry this girl, am i gonna wonder what else i coulda gotten? what if there is one better? what if i cheat and then i lose the best thing in the world? will i regret it when im 30?

should i just go with other girls without my main g/f knowing? i wouldnt take any risks. id just go with girls when i know i could get away with it... what should i do please help
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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From my experience LTR's started at a young age typically dont work out in this day and age.

If your having these feeling of whether the grass is greener, i can also bet you your gf is too.

My advice is see as many girls as you can before your 25 because if you do marry at a young at it will end in divorce cause you will regret not getting more experience with girls and it's better to do it now than trying to do it in your 30's.....
 
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it's always good to be curious.

however if you want to keep your gf, i would advise against it.
But if you choose to date other women, no matter how hard you try to hide it she'll find out one way or another eventually.

you know what you must do...
 
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What do you want to hear old mate?????

It's your life make a decision and live with it and stop bittching....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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