"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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theGAME50

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i have been in a LTR for more than a year with the most amazing girl in the world. she is so perfect and we both want to be with each other forever. unfortunately, i met her at a very young age. i am 19 and so is she.

i talk to a lot of girls, and a lot of them want to hang out with me, but of course i always say i cant because i have a girlfriend. i dont want to get caught and lose a great thing.

half of me is happy with the most amazing girl in the world. and i really want to be with her forever

but the other half doesnt know what to do because what about all the other girls in the world. if i marry this girl, am i gonna wonder what else i coulda gotten? what if there is one better? what if i cheat and then i lose the best thing in the world? will i regret it when im 30?

should i just go with other girls without my main g/f knowing? i wouldnt take any risks. id just go with girls when i know i could get away with it... what should i do please help
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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adamjones

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From my experience LTR's started at a young age typically dont work out in this day and age.

If your having these feeling of whether the grass is greener, i can also bet you your gf is too.

My advice is see as many girls as you can before your 25 because if you do marry at a young at it will end in divorce cause you will regret not getting more experience with girls and it's better to do it now than trying to do it in your 30's.....
 

ScrewIt

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it's always good to be curious.

however if you want to keep your gf, i would advise against it.
But if you choose to date other women, no matter how hard you try to hide it she'll find out one way or another eventually.

you know what you must do...
 

adamjones

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What do you want to hear old mate?????

It's your life make a decision and live with it and stop bittching....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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