"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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theGAME50

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i have been in a LTR for more than a year with the most amazing girl in the world. she is so perfect and we both want to be with each other forever. unfortunately, i met her at a very young age. i am 19 and so is she.

i talk to a lot of girls, and a lot of them want to hang out with me, but of course i always say i cant because i have a girlfriend. i dont want to get caught and lose a great thing.

half of me is happy with the most amazing girl in the world. and i really want to be with her forever

but the other half doesnt know what to do because what about all the other girls in the world. if i marry this girl, am i gonna wonder what else i coulda gotten? what if there is one better? what if i cheat and then i lose the best thing in the world? will i regret it when im 30?

should i just go with other girls without my main g/f knowing? i wouldnt take any risks. id just go with girls when i know i could get away with it... what should i do please help
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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adamjones

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From my experience LTR's started at a young age typically dont work out in this day and age.

If your having these feeling of whether the grass is greener, i can also bet you your gf is too.

My advice is see as many girls as you can before your 25 because if you do marry at a young at it will end in divorce cause you will regret not getting more experience with girls and it's better to do it now than trying to do it in your 30's.....
 

ScrewIt

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it's always good to be curious.

however if you want to keep your gf, i would advise against it.
But if you choose to date other women, no matter how hard you try to hide it she'll find out one way or another eventually.

you know what you must do...
 

adamjones

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What do you want to hear old mate?????

It's your life make a decision and live with it and stop bittching....
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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