"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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theGAME50

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i have been in a LTR for more than a year with the most amazing girl in the world. she is so perfect and we both want to be with each other forever. unfortunately, i met her at a very young age. i am 19 and so is she.

i talk to a lot of girls, and a lot of them want to hang out with me, but of course i always say i cant because i have a girlfriend. i dont want to get caught and lose a great thing.

half of me is happy with the most amazing girl in the world. and i really want to be with her forever

but the other half doesnt know what to do because what about all the other girls in the world. if i marry this girl, am i gonna wonder what else i coulda gotten? what if there is one better? what if i cheat and then i lose the best thing in the world? will i regret it when im 30?

should i just go with other girls without my main g/f knowing? i wouldnt take any risks. id just go with girls when i know i could get away with it... what should i do please help
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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From my experience LTR's started at a young age typically dont work out in this day and age.

If your having these feeling of whether the grass is greener, i can also bet you your gf is too.

My advice is see as many girls as you can before your 25 because if you do marry at a young at it will end in divorce cause you will regret not getting more experience with girls and it's better to do it now than trying to do it in your 30's.....
 
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it's always good to be curious.

however if you want to keep your gf, i would advise against it.
But if you choose to date other women, no matter how hard you try to hide it she'll find out one way or another eventually.

you know what you must do...
 
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What do you want to hear old mate?????

It's your life make a decision and live with it and stop bittching....
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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