"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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doctoroxygen

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Who here has long hair? What do you do with it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie

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My husband wears his long, past the sholders a few inches.

It grows fast so he gets a trim/shape every 3 weeks.

It gives him a warrior type look. *oh yeeaaahhh, yum*

Normally, he keeps it pulled back in a black leather strap.
(thin/sort of shoestring size)

At times he wears it lose but it tangles easily.

It is beautiful.
 

Hitman10000

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I wear my hair long and it's up to my shoulder blades, and I have it in a pony tail with a leather binding that wraps around my hair. It is awesome.
 

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Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
That's not what I've heard. All the girls I know say I look way better with long hair. Right now the front goes past my eyes (when its straight) and the back goes down to the top of my back. *The majority of girls I know like long hair better than short.*

But it usually depends on facial structure and if you can pull it off w/o looking too weird. Some people look better with long hair, while others look better with short hair.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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doctoroxygen

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The only hairstyle for men these days is gelled forward but up in the front. Like you ran into a wall.
 

Bad_Lil'Pixie

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Certian people can pull off certain things.

A close friend of ours is a state trooper. He pulls off the shaven look very, very well.

My husband wears the long look and does it very, very, well.

He could care less about the "style of the times" or what others think, he isn't really a mainstream type of man.

Many factors play into hair style, shape of face, body build, hair texture and thinkness, hobbies, habits, jobs, etc...

You have to have the confidence to go your way.
 

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Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)
 

Hitman10000

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
According to Gay Porn, most of them have short hair styles worn by jocks like yourselves.
 

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Adone said:
Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)

I have the same hair as yours, awesome when its wet, afroish when its dry, my hair gets similar to Robert Plant's...if you are a fan of Led Zeppelin.


Im usually with my hair tied in the back but from time to time, when air humidity is low and all the planets align, I let it "drop". Usually doesnt last long tho because the hair will get in my face and bother me.

I really love long hair, its different, sorta ageless and provides an awesome brutish look.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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