doctoroxygen
Master Don Juan
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Who here has long hair? What do you do with it?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That's not what I've heard. All the girls I know say I look way better with long hair. Right now the front goes past my eyes (when its straight) and the back goes down to the top of my back. *The majority of girls I know like long hair better than short.*Hockey Playa said:Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
According to Gay Porn, most of them have short hair styles worn by jocks like yourselves.Hockey Playa said:Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
Adone said:Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length![]()
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.