"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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doctoroxygen

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Who here has long hair? What do you do with it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie

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My husband wears his long, past the sholders a few inches.

It grows fast so he gets a trim/shape every 3 weeks.

It gives him a warrior type look. *oh yeeaaahhh, yum*

Normally, he keeps it pulled back in a black leather strap.
(thin/sort of shoestring size)

At times he wears it lose but it tangles easily.

It is beautiful.
 

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I wear my hair long and it's up to my shoulder blades, and I have it in a pony tail with a leather binding that wraps around my hair. It is awesome.
 

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Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
That's not what I've heard. All the girls I know say I look way better with long hair. Right now the front goes past my eyes (when its straight) and the back goes down to the top of my back. *The majority of girls I know like long hair better than short.*

But it usually depends on facial structure and if you can pull it off w/o looking too weird. Some people look better with long hair, while others look better with short hair.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The only hairstyle for men these days is gelled forward but up in the front. Like you ran into a wall.
 

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Certian people can pull off certain things.

A close friend of ours is a state trooper. He pulls off the shaven look very, very well.

My husband wears the long look and does it very, very, well.

He could care less about the "style of the times" or what others think, he isn't really a mainstream type of man.

Many factors play into hair style, shape of face, body build, hair texture and thinkness, hobbies, habits, jobs, etc...

You have to have the confidence to go your way.
 

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Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)
 

Hitman10000

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
According to Gay Porn, most of them have short hair styles worn by jocks like yourselves.
 

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Adone said:
Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)

I have the same hair as yours, awesome when its wet, afroish when its dry, my hair gets similar to Robert Plant's...if you are a fan of Led Zeppelin.


Im usually with my hair tied in the back but from time to time, when air humidity is low and all the planets align, I let it "drop". Usually doesnt last long tho because the hair will get in my face and bother me.

I really love long hair, its different, sorta ageless and provides an awesome brutish look.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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