"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who here has long hair? What do you do with it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My husband wears his long, past the sholders a few inches.

It grows fast so he gets a trim/shape every 3 weeks.

It gives him a warrior type look. *oh yeeaaahhh, yum*

Normally, he keeps it pulled back in a black leather strap.
(thin/sort of shoestring size)

At times he wears it lose but it tangles easily.

It is beautiful.
 

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I wear my hair long and it's up to my shoulder blades, and I have it in a pony tail with a leather binding that wraps around my hair. It is awesome.
 

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Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
That's not what I've heard. All the girls I know say I look way better with long hair. Right now the front goes past my eyes (when its straight) and the back goes down to the top of my back. *The majority of girls I know like long hair better than short.*

But it usually depends on facial structure and if you can pull it off w/o looking too weird. Some people look better with long hair, while others look better with short hair.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only hairstyle for men these days is gelled forward but up in the front. Like you ran into a wall.
 

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Certian people can pull off certain things.

A close friend of ours is a state trooper. He pulls off the shaven look very, very well.

My husband wears the long look and does it very, very, well.

He could care less about the "style of the times" or what others think, he isn't really a mainstream type of man.

Many factors play into hair style, shape of face, body build, hair texture and thinkness, hobbies, habits, jobs, etc...

You have to have the confidence to go your way.
 

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Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
According to Gay Porn, most of them have short hair styles worn by jocks like yourselves.
 

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Adone said:
Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)

I have the same hair as yours, awesome when its wet, afroish when its dry, my hair gets similar to Robert Plant's...if you are a fan of Led Zeppelin.


Im usually with my hair tied in the back but from time to time, when air humidity is low and all the planets align, I let it "drop". Usually doesnt last long tho because the hair will get in my face and bother me.

I really love long hair, its different, sorta ageless and provides an awesome brutish look.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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