Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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doctoroxygen

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Who here has long hair? What do you do with it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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My husband wears his long, past the sholders a few inches.

It grows fast so he gets a trim/shape every 3 weeks.

It gives him a warrior type look. *oh yeeaaahhh, yum*

Normally, he keeps it pulled back in a black leather strap.
(thin/sort of shoestring size)

At times he wears it lose but it tangles easily.

It is beautiful.
 

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I wear my hair long and it's up to my shoulder blades, and I have it in a pony tail with a leather binding that wraps around my hair. It is awesome.
 

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Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
That's not what I've heard. All the girls I know say I look way better with long hair. Right now the front goes past my eyes (when its straight) and the back goes down to the top of my back. *The majority of girls I know like long hair better than short.*

But it usually depends on facial structure and if you can pull it off w/o looking too weird. Some people look better with long hair, while others look better with short hair.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only hairstyle for men these days is gelled forward but up in the front. Like you ran into a wall.
 

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Certian people can pull off certain things.

A close friend of ours is a state trooper. He pulls off the shaven look very, very well.

My husband wears the long look and does it very, very, well.

He could care less about the "style of the times" or what others think, he isn't really a mainstream type of man.

Many factors play into hair style, shape of face, body build, hair texture and thinkness, hobbies, habits, jobs, etc...

You have to have the confidence to go your way.
 

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Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)
 

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Hockey Playa said:
Long hair in this day and age is gay IMO, just looks dirty and feminine, only people who can pull it off are celebrities doing movies based 1000 years ago ( aka Brad pitt in troy ^^)
According to Gay Porn, most of them have short hair styles worn by jocks like yourselves.
 

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Adone said:
Most girls say I look better with long hair and when it's wet, I actually look like a surfer stud. The problem is when it dries out, it gets like a huge afro and I'm pretty touchy to people's comments, so I keep it medium-length:)

I have the same hair as yours, awesome when its wet, afroish when its dry, my hair gets similar to Robert Plant's...if you are a fan of Led Zeppelin.


Im usually with my hair tied in the back but from time to time, when air humidity is low and all the planets align, I let it "drop". Usually doesnt last long tho because the hair will get in my face and bother me.

I really love long hair, its different, sorta ageless and provides an awesome brutish look.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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