Lonely, Single Men

[Juan_Man]

When CNN covers this topic, then you know it's serious!

Any thoughts?

 

[Gamisch]

When CNN covers this topic, then you know it's serious!

Any thoughts?

This reaches mainstream because the statistics are unable to ignore anymore. The upcoming of the RP was the first sign, and under the radar the blackpill grew just as big.

This type of broadcast is a good thing. I am curious to what society actually will do about this.

These guys can't believe it. They are from a era when perhaps 70% of men had a woman. " Happenstance and mingling". It might become detrimental to society in the long run. Even these guys bring up more than 20 problems , showing they finally understand how multi dimensional this issue is. Happy wife happy life, but happy man happy LAND.

As we talked about earlier today, (most) men hate OLD, while most women absolutely love it. It will be extremely tough to change these dynamics now...

 

[patb]

What is there to say? Society will burn to the waterline before it will ever apportion blame or accountability to women for anything. The lying, posturing and deflection will continue until the sun scalds the life from the face of this wretched Earth and justice is, by cosmic happenstance, served at last.

 

[corrector]

That is actually big because CNN is as left as you can get for mainstream media, and you can even see the reporter is very careful with the wording to appease the feminist liberals who are watching the newscast, not to offend anyone so you know it's much worst than the sugar-coated delivery. If they are talking about it like that, then its bad. Period. It's like Fox News talking about policy brutality and the need of reform.

 

[patb]

That is actually big because CNN is as left as you can get for mainstream media, and you can even see the reporter is very careful with the wording to appease the feminist liberals who are watching the newscast, not to offend anyone so you know it's much worst than the sugar-coated delivery. If they are talking about it like that, then its bad. Period.

And yet, it just goes on and on.

 

[Juan_Man]

Interesting replies. Can an average guy with strong enough game make it through the the current social media culture that is tilted in favor of women and secure a long-term relationship with high-quality girl, or are his days numbered?

 

[corrector]

Interesting replies. Can an average guy with strong enough game make it through the the current social media culture that is tilted in favor of women and secure a long-term relationship with high-quality girl, or are his days numbered?

Depends on if they feel the juice is worth the squeeze. From the feedback on this board, you can easily spot who is in the right zone, in terms of looks, status and game and who is more average and miserable. Some have opted out entirely and have gone MTGOW/MTGOW monk-mode.

For example, if you take an above average looking poster like @SW15 and look at the trouble he has to go through with cold-approaching, even as far as having to see a shrink because of the rejections from cold-approach and treatment from women, and how keeps advocating no fap no porn, then it seems like someone has to go through a garguantian and time-consuming effort and you might end up with a very small rotation at the end of the day if you are lucky. I wouldn't say he's even seeing any high-quality women on an LTR.
You have chad-framed (but average looking facially I guesss) guys like @sangheilios as well but he's struggling to find his look-match or higher. It's like 3-4 points lower.

Then you have other posters like @BackInTheGame78 @European-DJ @Murk @LucianoM @Barrister @SargeMaximus to name a few that seem to be cleaning house, so I guess they might have better looks?

 

[jaymbrs]

It’s ****ing crazy right now. In high school I could’ve dated this girl. Fast forward to now, she’s divorced and has a 7 year old. Ive never married and kidless yet she has rejected me recently. It’s unbelievable.

 

[Juan_Man]

Depends on if they feel the juice is worth the squeeze. From the feedback on this board, you can easily spot who is in the right zone, in terms of looks, status and game and who is more average and miserable. Some have opted out entirely and have gone MTGOW/MTGOW monk-mode.

For example, if you take an above average looking poster like @SW15 and look at the trouble he has to go through with cold-approaching, even as far as having to see a shrink because of the rejections from cold-approach and treatment from women, and how keeps advocating no fap no porn, then it seems like someone has to go through a garguantian and time-consuming effort and you might end up with a very small rotation at the end of the day if you are lucky. I wouldn't say he's even seeing any high-quality women on an LTR.
You have chad-framed (but average looking facially I guesss) guys like @sangheilios as well but he's struggling to find his look-match or higher. It's like 3-4 points lower.

Then you have other posters like @BackInTheGame78 @European-DJ @Murk @LucianoM @Barrister @SargeMaximus to name a few that seem to be cleaning house, so I guess they might have better looks?

Interesting to know. I haven't been on this site in a while. Just curious how the posters here feel about game and how it works in the current social media world of Tinder, OnlyFans, thirst trapping, and DM sliding.

 

[Juan_Man]

It’s ****ing crazy right now. In high school I could’ve dated this girl. Fast forward to now, she’s divorced and has a 7 year old. Ive never married and kidless yet she has rejected me recently. It’s unbelievable.

It's crazy. A young adult female who struggled to get guys to notice her in the early to mid-1990s and even late-1990s would be bombarded with online dating messages today.

 

[corrector]

Interesting to know. I haven't been on this site in a while. Just curious how the posters here feel about game and how it works in the current social media world of Tinder, OnlyFans, thirst trapping, and DM sliding.

Same here, which is why I tagged them. My own journey is one of weight-loss and my weight and age has me on a sub-5 looks level, so I'm working on losing weight and improving my looks. I was sort of discouraged with web-based dating and if that was hard, I'm not even bothering with modern dating apps because the negative feedback loops with the algorithms are too daunting.

 

[Juan_Man]

Same here, which is why I tagged them. My own journey is one of weight-loss and my weight and age has me on a sub-5 looks level, so I'm working on losing weight and improving my looks. I was sort of discouraged with web-based dating and if that was hard, I'm not even bothering with modern dating apps because the negative feedback loops with the algorithms are too daunting.

Keep doing your thang, man. Sometimes, not even approaching women and staying on your grind leads to the best results with women.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Idk man it's shocking. To me, I feel like sex is becoming more and more as common as a handshake.. I've had sexual encounters in the last 2 years that were so random and unexplainable.. with complete strangers in would be ordinary situations. I'm surprised and at the same time not so surprised at the stats. I feel like alot of stats are just bull.sht.. especailly because no one even fills out censors anymore..

 

[ubercat]

Idk guys. I mean I literally don't know.I m nearly 60 chubby not rich Get lots of semi flirting from chicks. And that is in Australia which everyone seems to agree is top 3 of the worst for chicks I m sure if went hard I could get ph numbers. What I don't know is if anyone would ever answer that phone call. I do know the last time I was online dating 7 years ago it seemed to have got a lot harder. And I agree if it is being seriously reported on CNN even with the ritual references to misogyny it must be bad. I do know as a sometimes project manager in in corporate I can't really direct women any more to actually do some work I have to weedle and influence and jollie and use herd pressure. And God help me if I write an email without hoping her week has gone well aand telling her that she is wonderful before getting down to business. And if you offend one girl and the offence can just be in her little mind she will get 2 friends to complain about you and 3 ladies complaining no evidence or anything required you are out the door

 

[Murk]

Then you have other posters like @Murk to name a few that seem to be cleaning house, so I guess they might have better looks?

I am handsome, my pictures were all 95%+ as rated on the pic app thread on here. Female posters here can also attest to that plus sazc if she ever comes back (I doubt it). Being handsome and tall has made it easy for me, I don't hide that fact. I have a well-rounded and confident personality to go with it, so I did well even at 20-25% body fat which according to this forum would be too fat to do as well as I was doing, even on OLD. My face and height got me in the door and my personality did the rest.

My mission now is 12% BF (for Testosterone purposes) I'm about 17-16% now, there's no doubt not being ripped has held me back all these years, I liked to drink and party too much, but I was able to get by with women so not really motivated to get into great shape. I've learned a good face and height can do wonders. Probably not what many want to hear.

 

[corrector]

I am handsome, my pictures were all 95%+ as rated on the pic app thread on here. Female posters here can also attest to that plus sazc if she ever comes back (I doubt it). Being handsome and tall has made it easy for me, I don't hide that fact. I have a well-rounded and confident personality to go with it, so I did well even at 20-25% body fat which according to this forum would be too fat to do as well as I was doing, even on OLD. My face and height got me in the door and my personality did the rest.

My mission now is 12% BF (for Testosterone purposes) I'm about 17-16% now, there's no doubt not being ripped has held me back all these years, I liked to drink and party too much, but I was able to get by with women so not really motivated to get into great shape. I've learned a good face and height can do wonders. Probably not what many want to hear.

At least you are honest about it and not hiding behind game. If you cant put your foot in the door in the first place then game is irrelevant.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I believe the most relevant line is "those men wont make good citizens".

You can bet your ass they wont, choked from rules, limitations, taxes and not even getting laid, let alone appreciated.

 

[redskinsfan92]

Few men will cope well with lack of success with women. Some will become violent unfortunately.

I will admit I continue to lack success with women. The whole situation is so screwed up that I'm just checked out of it right now. I have chosen to focus on other aspects of life. I have a really good social life. I do not lack in successful friends and close family. Got friends, siblings, cousins, nieces, and nephews that I'm close with. Most in my circle are simply stunned that I am single. Just recently at a friend's party an attractive girl flirted with me quite a lot without my provocation. Turned out she has a boyfriend. Yeah, my opinion of her dropped. Honestly the only thing a woman can bring to the table for me is someone to bang and sleep next to at night. I doubt most womenless men are anywhere near in as good of a position in life as I am. So, that is and will cause many problems in society.

 

[patb]

Depends on if they feel the juice is worth the squeeze. From the feedback on this board, you can easily spot who is in the right zone, in terms of looks, status and game and who is more average and miserable. Some have opted out entirely and have gone MTGOW/MTGOW monk-mode.

For example, if you take an above average looking poster like @SW15 and look at the trouble he has to go through with cold-approaching, even as far as having to see a shrink because of the rejections from cold-approach and treatment from women, and how keeps advocating no fap no porn, then it seems like someone has to go through a garguantian and time-consuming effort and you might end up with a very small rotation at the end of the day if you are lucky. I wouldn't say he's even seeing any high-quality women on an LTR.
You have chad-framed (but average looking facially I guesss) guys like @sangheilios as well but he's struggling to find his look-match or higher. It's like 3-4 points lower.

Then you have other posters like @BackInTheGame78 @European-DJ @Murk @LucianoM @Barrister @SargeMaximus to name a few that seem to be cleaning house, so I guess they might have better looks?

I really wouldn’t take the “cleaning house” types on here too seriously

 

[patb]

Few men will cope well with lack of success with women. Some will become violent unfortunately.

What’s unfortunate about it? The reality is that there’s a shocking lack of violence in society.