"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol my boss trynna hit my girlfriend, but we a secret

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This is a funny situation that i just wanna share with u guys.

My boss likes my girlfriend basicly and hes ofcourse trying to bang her, but he dont know that we are going out, (very few people know in the workplace) he told me "damn she fine" and other comments, i asked my girl if he knows and she told me that he do but i dont quite think so.

Anyways this is actually kind of funny to me i dont know why.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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awesome lol, same thing was happening to me. Although he did it on the low he kept asking her.. so what's going on with you and chris? are you guys dateing?

and she would relay this to me and i would laugh.

of course i nexted her LOL
 

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Know what would REALLY be funny? If I bent you over the living room table and inserted my sweet, sweet man-cheese into your dirty cornhole. Butter that shiet up like it was Thanksgivin day. Party in your ass and I'm invited. Helly yeah!

Tell your gf I said sup.
 

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How does your boss know your girlfriend? Does she also work there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah we both work in the same place.

No reason for me to next her though, she aint interested in him at all, she got no control over somebody having a crush on her, one of my coworkers wants to bang her too, but she could careless about them, im not worried about it, i actually laugh when i see them spitting game to her cause they just dont know that they got -5 chance.
 

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Good to see you're not fighting or getting emotional over women yoy have no control over.

Good for you my nig.
 

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yeh ive learned a lot thanx to this site. Im sure that if it wasnt cause i joined this site i would be getting mad at her and whatnot, but sousave.com is every man's paradise.

THANX SOSUAVE!
 

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Yea I'm trying to get to that point too, It's all in your mind ;)
 
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