Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Location Report.

stevo

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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChristopherColumbus

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It does not matter. Game is universal.
Sometimes I think location matters. Sometimes I don't [I live in a conservative city of a conservative country.. Korea]. But I always think you just have to make the most of your situation, both in the looks and location department. After reading the OPs interesting posts, I walked into town with a little extra zest in my step. I noticed straight away a couple of women who noticed me. I think this is due to your poise, the way in which you hold yourself, and of course, just the fact that you are out of your head and noticing women in the first place. I really think women will just naturally reciprocate your 'noticing' of them... as long as it is done authentically and not creepily.

It would be better, I think, to have a good inner game situated in a not so good location than the converse. Of course, I have started thinking hard about my next holiday destination.:rolleyes:
 
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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
 

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The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
You don't want Latinas?????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I am in the Bay Area...

-More men than women so ratios are even more screwy
-Even though there are more men, I feel like the men are wayyyyyy more beta here... bonus for me. They believe their salary and fancy cars is all they need...
-Being educated helps since such a large percentage of the population is educated
-Women are more full of themselves here, so I would say more low quality women
-Lot of latinas, so great for me, cause that is really my target now
-Lot of asians too.. sigh... most just don't do it for me...
-With Oakland, SF, and San Jose, you have 3 very distinct populations. Three unique areas to practice skills on different types of women within 40 minutes, which is great!
 
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