"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Location Report.

stevo

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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChristopherColumbus

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It does not matter. Game is universal.
Sometimes I think location matters. Sometimes I don't [I live in a conservative city of a conservative country.. Korea]. But I always think you just have to make the most of your situation, both in the looks and location department. After reading the OPs interesting posts, I walked into town with a little extra zest in my step. I noticed straight away a couple of women who noticed me. I think this is due to your poise, the way in which you hold yourself, and of course, just the fact that you are out of your head and noticing women in the first place. I really think women will just naturally reciprocate your 'noticing' of them... as long as it is done authentically and not creepily.

It would be better, I think, to have a good inner game situated in a not so good location than the converse. Of course, I have started thinking hard about my next holiday destination.:rolleyes:
 
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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
 

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The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
You don't want Latinas?????
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I am in the Bay Area...

-More men than women so ratios are even more screwy
-Even though there are more men, I feel like the men are wayyyyyy more beta here... bonus for me. They believe their salary and fancy cars is all they need...
-Being educated helps since such a large percentage of the population is educated
-Women are more full of themselves here, so I would say more low quality women
-Lot of latinas, so great for me, cause that is really my target now
-Lot of asians too.. sigh... most just don't do it for me...
-With Oakland, SF, and San Jose, you have 3 very distinct populations. Three unique areas to practice skills on different types of women within 40 minutes, which is great!
 
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