"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Location Report.

stevo

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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ChristopherColumbus

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It does not matter. Game is universal.
Sometimes I think location matters. Sometimes I don't [I live in a conservative city of a conservative country.. Korea]. But I always think you just have to make the most of your situation, both in the looks and location department. After reading the OPs interesting posts, I walked into town with a little extra zest in my step. I noticed straight away a couple of women who noticed me. I think this is due to your poise, the way in which you hold yourself, and of course, just the fact that you are out of your head and noticing women in the first place. I really think women will just naturally reciprocate your 'noticing' of them... as long as it is done authentically and not creepily.

It would be better, I think, to have a good inner game situated in a not so good location than the converse. Of course, I have started thinking hard about my next holiday destination.:rolleyes:
 
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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
 

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The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
You don't want Latinas?????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I am in the Bay Area...

-More men than women so ratios are even more screwy
-Even though there are more men, I feel like the men are wayyyyyy more beta here... bonus for me. They believe their salary and fancy cars is all they need...
-Being educated helps since such a large percentage of the population is educated
-Women are more full of themselves here, so I would say more low quality women
-Lot of latinas, so great for me, cause that is really my target now
-Lot of asians too.. sigh... most just don't do it for me...
-With Oakland, SF, and San Jose, you have 3 very distinct populations. Three unique areas to practice skills on different types of women within 40 minutes, which is great!
 
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