"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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stevo

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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ChristopherColumbus

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It does not matter. Game is universal.
Sometimes I think location matters. Sometimes I don't [I live in a conservative city of a conservative country.. Korea]. But I always think you just have to make the most of your situation, both in the looks and location department. After reading the OPs interesting posts, I walked into town with a little extra zest in my step. I noticed straight away a couple of women who noticed me. I think this is due to your poise, the way in which you hold yourself, and of course, just the fact that you are out of your head and noticing women in the first place. I really think women will just naturally reciprocate your 'noticing' of them... as long as it is done authentically and not creepily.

It would be better, I think, to have a good inner game situated in a not so good location than the converse. Of course, I have started thinking hard about my next holiday destination.:rolleyes:
 
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I'd say this about Arizona, it is more interracial tolerant. I don't know specifically for Hispanic/White but the white girls in Arizona are more experimental.

The Tempe/PHX area has a high presence of latinas so you might get a stare when they see you with your blond due to there being so many hispanics but you should be fine.

Consider Flagstaff. That's where I lived. Smaller and colder and thanks to the small amount of options, the women are pretty relatable to decent men.

For your blondes, stay West coast.
The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
 

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The thing is, I don't want Latinas and I've managed to exclusively date white girls in my current areas.

I heard white girls in AZ are experimental but it is more towards black guys and not other minority groups. Was looking to see how easy or tough Hispanic men had it there.
You don't want Latinas?????
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I am in the Bay Area...

-More men than women so ratios are even more screwy
-Even though there are more men, I feel like the men are wayyyyyy more beta here... bonus for me. They believe their salary and fancy cars is all they need...
-Being educated helps since such a large percentage of the population is educated
-Women are more full of themselves here, so I would say more low quality women
-Lot of latinas, so great for me, cause that is really my target now
-Lot of asians too.. sigh... most just don't do it for me...
-With Oakland, SF, and San Jose, you have 3 very distinct populations. Three unique areas to practice skills on different types of women within 40 minutes, which is great!
 
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