"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So yea, I'd been seeing this cute blonde chick...3 years older than me, though recently divorced from 10 month marriage, she seemed cool enough to try something out with. Anyways, we rushed things along and shes temptin me to ask her to be my chick (mistake #1) so I do, then she becomes my gf. this was about 2 weeks ago or so.

Fast forward to today, she tells me that she had a talk with her best friend (who i kno as well) and she thought that it would be better if we would be friends...in her words, "well not friends but like it was back on the first date..not friends, but not in a relationship either". Her reasoning being that she feels that she hasn't been able to get to know me...

Anyways, what do you think I should do? She told me "I really like you alot", but that when she had gotten married she had rushed the relationship and found out that she didn't know the guy afterwards and thus she doesn't want to rush this...which I agree with, it gives me excuse to holler at other chicks while hollerin at her as well lol...but I'm gonna back off on making out and ish, I don't know what else I should do really...any pointers/advice? Thanks
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An 18 year old kid is going after a Divorcee - Hahahaha, your ass is going to be eaten alive!!!! Leave this girl alone, you are not ready for her - she is a trickster!!!! Hand her over to me and I will put her in her proper place!!
 
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oh nah, i'm 19 now...forgot to update that hahaha...but yea shes only 22, she admits it was very stupid thing to do (gettin married) and it made me mad skeptical to trying anything with her, but we'll see...anymore thoughts?
 
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Either she is your girl or she is isn't - what is there to discuss? She married and divorced for a reason! Find out!!
 
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