"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So yea, I'd been seeing this cute blonde chick...3 years older than me, though recently divorced from 10 month marriage, she seemed cool enough to try something out with. Anyways, we rushed things along and shes temptin me to ask her to be my chick (mistake #1) so I do, then she becomes my gf. this was about 2 weeks ago or so.

Fast forward to today, she tells me that she had a talk with her best friend (who i kno as well) and she thought that it would be better if we would be friends...in her words, "well not friends but like it was back on the first date..not friends, but not in a relationship either". Her reasoning being that she feels that she hasn't been able to get to know me...

Anyways, what do you think I should do? She told me "I really like you alot", but that when she had gotten married she had rushed the relationship and found out that she didn't know the guy afterwards and thus she doesn't want to rush this...which I agree with, it gives me excuse to holler at other chicks while hollerin at her as well lol...but I'm gonna back off on making out and ish, I don't know what else I should do really...any pointers/advice? Thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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An 18 year old kid is going after a Divorcee - Hahahaha, your ass is going to be eaten alive!!!! Leave this girl alone, you are not ready for her - she is a trickster!!!! Hand her over to me and I will put her in her proper place!!
 
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oh nah, i'm 19 now...forgot to update that hahaha...but yea shes only 22, she admits it was very stupid thing to do (gettin married) and it made me mad skeptical to trying anything with her, but we'll see...anymore thoughts?
 
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Either she is your girl or she is isn't - what is there to discuss? She married and divorced for a reason! Find out!!
 
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