"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJMaC23

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So yea, I'd been seeing this cute blonde chick...3 years older than me, though recently divorced from 10 month marriage, she seemed cool enough to try something out with. Anyways, we rushed things along and shes temptin me to ask her to be my chick (mistake #1) so I do, then she becomes my gf. this was about 2 weeks ago or so.

Fast forward to today, she tells me that she had a talk with her best friend (who i kno as well) and she thought that it would be better if we would be friends...in her words, "well not friends but like it was back on the first date..not friends, but not in a relationship either". Her reasoning being that she feels that she hasn't been able to get to know me...

Anyways, what do you think I should do? She told me "I really like you alot", but that when she had gotten married she had rushed the relationship and found out that she didn't know the guy afterwards and thus she doesn't want to rush this...which I agree with, it gives me excuse to holler at other chicks while hollerin at her as well lol...but I'm gonna back off on making out and ish, I don't know what else I should do really...any pointers/advice? Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An 18 year old kid is going after a Divorcee - Hahahaha, your ass is going to be eaten alive!!!! Leave this girl alone, you are not ready for her - she is a trickster!!!! Hand her over to me and I will put her in her proper place!!
 
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oh nah, i'm 19 now...forgot to update that hahaha...but yea shes only 22, she admits it was very stupid thing to do (gettin married) and it made me mad skeptical to trying anything with her, but we'll see...anymore thoughts?
 
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Either she is your girl or she is isn't - what is there to discuss? She married and divorced for a reason! Find out!!
 
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