"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Warboss Alex will lead chat nights on sunday 11-25-07 at 5pm eastern/ 10pm uk
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
update: tonights sunday night chats will be led by last man standing at ten pm eastern time....
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lms.. you stood me up dude!
catch you next time.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sam, i didnt pay some nine dollar archieve fee so i cant get the entire thing, but last night i tried to be smart and save as much as i could as much as it would allow me to, pm me with your email addy and i will send what i have to yousam3083 said:
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I'm sorry about my non-presence - I unexpectedly went out of town - do you want to try again this Sunday night?penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its ok we figured something came up.Last Man Standing said:
warboss alex has scheduled five pm eastern time or ten pm uk time for general fitness.
if you have time this sunday and want to come in after that, we can let everyone know and they will all come. they were really anticipating your chat last week.
next sunday drum & bass has one scheduled with the topic of confidence.
i have to go out of town this weekend, so the floor is all yours.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come one, come all, come with pie to the chat room....
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
anyone else wanna jump in and chat? I see a few names down at the bottom of this board...
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Chat has started.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Bump
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Is there going to be another chat later on tonight?
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Haha, you bumped a sticky - nice!Quagmire911 said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
there are people in chat right now
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonight
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
phyzzle will be leading chat topic
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
Chatzy for the fail!! Ah well, it was nice while it lasted, but I don't think you can depend on that page any more. I know it's not my connection, since every other page I go to still works fine.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i cant even get in there either.Phyzzle said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.