"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Warboss Alex will lead chat nights on sunday 11-25-07 at 5pm eastern/ 10pm uk
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
update: tonights sunday night chats will be led by last man standing at ten pm eastern time....
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lms.. you stood me up dude!
catch you next time.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sam, i didnt pay some nine dollar archieve fee so i cant get the entire thing, but last night i tried to be smart and save as much as i could as much as it would allow me to, pm me with your email addy and i will send what i have to yousam3083 said:
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I'm sorry about my non-presence - I unexpectedly went out of town - do you want to try again this Sunday night?penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its ok we figured something came up.Last Man Standing said:
warboss alex has scheduled five pm eastern time or ten pm uk time for general fitness.
if you have time this sunday and want to come in after that, we can let everyone know and they will all come. they were really anticipating your chat last week.
next sunday drum & bass has one scheduled with the topic of confidence.
i have to go out of town this weekend, so the floor is all yours.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come one, come all, come with pie to the chat room....
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
anyone else wanna jump in and chat? I see a few names down at the bottom of this board...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Chat has started.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Bump
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Is there going to be another chat later on tonight?
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Haha, you bumped a sticky - nice!Quagmire911 said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
there are people in chat right now
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonight
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
phyzzle will be leading chat topic
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
Chatzy for the fail!! Ah well, it was nice while it lasted, but I don't think you can depend on that page any more. I know it's not my connection, since every other page I go to still works fine.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i cant even get in there either.Phyzzle said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.