"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Warboss Alex will lead chat nights on sunday 11-25-07 at 5pm eastern/ 10pm uk
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
update: tonights sunday night chats will be led by last man standing at ten pm eastern time....
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lms.. you stood me up dude!
catch you next time.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sam, i didnt pay some nine dollar archieve fee so i cant get the entire thing, but last night i tried to be smart and save as much as i could as much as it would allow me to, pm me with your email addy and i will send what i have to yousam3083 said:
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I'm sorry about my non-presence - I unexpectedly went out of town - do you want to try again this Sunday night?penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its ok we figured something came up.Last Man Standing said:
warboss alex has scheduled five pm eastern time or ten pm uk time for general fitness.
if you have time this sunday and want to come in after that, we can let everyone know and they will all come. they were really anticipating your chat last week.
next sunday drum & bass has one scheduled with the topic of confidence.
i have to go out of town this weekend, so the floor is all yours.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come one, come all, come with pie to the chat room....
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
anyone else wanna jump in and chat? I see a few names down at the bottom of this board...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Chat has started.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Bump
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Is there going to be another chat later on tonight?
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Haha, you bumped a sticky - nice!Quagmire911 said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
there are people in chat right now
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonight
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
phyzzle will be leading chat topic
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
Chatzy for the fail!! Ah well, it was nice while it lasted, but I don't think you can depend on that page any more. I know it's not my connection, since every other page I go to still works fine.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i cant even get in there either.Phyzzle said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.