"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Warboss Alex will lead chat nights on sunday 11-25-07 at 5pm eastern/ 10pm uk
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
topic is general fitness.
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
update: tonights sunday night chats will be led by last man standing at ten pm eastern time....
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
http://www.chatzy.com/122298398237
penkitten
Master Don Juan
penkitten said:
lms.. you stood me up dude!
catch you next time.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
sam, i didnt pay some nine dollar archieve fee so i cant get the entire thing, but last night i tried to be smart and save as much as i could as much as it would allow me to, pm me with your email addy and i will send what i have to yousam3083 said:
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I'm sorry about my non-presence - I unexpectedly went out of town - do you want to try again this Sunday night?penkitten said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
its ok we figured something came up.Last Man Standing said:
warboss alex has scheduled five pm eastern time or ten pm uk time for general fitness.
if you have time this sunday and want to come in after that, we can let everyone know and they will all come. they were really anticipating your chat last week.
next sunday drum & bass has one scheduled with the topic of confidence.
i have to go out of town this weekend, so the floor is all yours.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
come one, come all, come with pie to the chat room....
slitherjef
Senior Don Juan
anyone else wanna jump in and chat? I see a few names down at the bottom of this board...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Chat has started.
Quagmire911
Master Don Juan
Bump
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Is there going to be another chat later on tonight?
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Haha, you bumped a sticky - nice!Quagmire911 said:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
there are people in chat right now
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
tonight
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
drum & bass will lead chat nights on sunday 12-2-07 at 10 pm eastern topic is : confidence (this is the one you guys asked about virginity and desperation...)
penkitten
Master Don Juan
phyzzle will be leading chat topic
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
"reading the true interest level",
Saturday 12-8-07 at 7pm , EST.
he lives in New Zealand, so Sunday night is Monday during the work day.
Chatzy for the fail!! Ah well, it was nice while it lasted, but I don't think you can depend on that page any more. I know it's not my connection, since every other page I go to still works fine.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
I should still start an Interest Level Megathread, though.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
i cant even get in there either.Phyzzle said:
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.