"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi there. Well I'll be brief now:

I know most of you guys are attracted to the physical characters of girls (face, body, etc.) However, I have never feel attracted in this way to girls, but rather, I am attracted on how the girl makes me feel, how she behaves with me and that she has an interesting personality. These are the things that start in me that "spark" that we call "attraction".

As a result, I usually start to feel attraction for girls after some while meeting them, most of the time after becoming friends with her. As you know, becoming friends with a girl is one of the first things you should avoid, but for me it is something almost inevitable. Only when I actually get to know her I can decide to start "feeling something" for her, or not.

In other words, I can only like a girl after I become friends with her (if she has great personality, how she makes me feel...)

How should I proceed in this case?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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I mean, that only I can start to feel attraction for a girl, only after I am already friends with her.

Most of the time, this is after two weeks, to one month of knowing the girl. In some cases, I have already up to one year of friendship with that girl, and I start liking her after we start hanging out more frequently and have good time.

What should I do then?
 
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Turn her into your GF, if thats what you want. Request to hang out alone, do more kino, have a more sexual vibe.
Something else that could work is to have a sexual vibe with most of your female friends, they might be attracted to you, and it wont come off as incongruent when you try to convert her later.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CharlieCW said:
How should I proceed in this case?
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Only see them as physical objects you wanna fvck?
 
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