"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CharlieCW

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Hi there. Well I'll be brief now:

I know most of you guys are attracted to the physical characters of girls (face, body, etc.) However, I have never feel attracted in this way to girls, but rather, I am attracted on how the girl makes me feel, how she behaves with me and that she has an interesting personality. These are the things that start in me that "spark" that we call "attraction".

As a result, I usually start to feel attraction for girls after some while meeting them, most of the time after becoming friends with her. As you know, becoming friends with a girl is one of the first things you should avoid, but for me it is something almost inevitable. Only when I actually get to know her I can decide to start "feeling something" for her, or not.

In other words, I can only like a girl after I become friends with her (if she has great personality, how she makes me feel...)

How should I proceed in this case?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I mean, that only I can start to feel attraction for a girl, only after I am already friends with her.

Most of the time, this is after two weeks, to one month of knowing the girl. In some cases, I have already up to one year of friendship with that girl, and I start liking her after we start hanging out more frequently and have good time.

What should I do then?
 
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Turn her into your GF, if thats what you want. Request to hang out alone, do more kino, have a more sexual vibe.
Something else that could work is to have a sexual vibe with most of your female friends, they might be attracted to you, and it wont come off as incongruent when you try to convert her later.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CharlieCW said:
How should I proceed in this case?
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Only see them as physical objects you wanna fvck?
 
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