"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CharlieCW

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Hi there. Well I'll be brief now:

I know most of you guys are attracted to the physical characters of girls (face, body, etc.) However, I have never feel attracted in this way to girls, but rather, I am attracted on how the girl makes me feel, how she behaves with me and that she has an interesting personality. These are the things that start in me that "spark" that we call "attraction".

As a result, I usually start to feel attraction for girls after some while meeting them, most of the time after becoming friends with her. As you know, becoming friends with a girl is one of the first things you should avoid, but for me it is something almost inevitable. Only when I actually get to know her I can decide to start "feeling something" for her, or not.

In other words, I can only like a girl after I become friends with her (if she has great personality, how she makes me feel...)

How should I proceed in this case?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I mean, that only I can start to feel attraction for a girl, only after I am already friends with her.

Most of the time, this is after two weeks, to one month of knowing the girl. In some cases, I have already up to one year of friendship with that girl, and I start liking her after we start hanging out more frequently and have good time.

What should I do then?
 
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Turn her into your GF, if thats what you want. Request to hang out alone, do more kino, have a more sexual vibe.
Something else that could work is to have a sexual vibe with most of your female friends, they might be attracted to you, and it wont come off as incongruent when you try to convert her later.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CharlieCW said:
How should I proceed in this case?
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Only see them as physical objects you wanna fvck?
 
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