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Master Don Juan
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most gay guys I know say that they knew they were gay from about 13-15.Michele said:first off your 16... hes your little brother. he must be much younger than you im guessing... which makes him either middle school or elementary... he has no idea what hes talking about... and it's probably some "hip"-scene to be gay or something.
kinda like how the emo scene was thought to be high school... but if you walked around the mall you'd see 10 year olds wearing emo ****.
kids these days.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Actually, that's exactly when he would know.AlexTheGreat said:Does your bro watch TV shows with a gay theme (like Will and Grace or something)? If he's 13, then he can't know he's gay cuz he just hit puberty, and he either wants to or has been mentally programmed into wanting to.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.Ricky said:Apparently in Iran they don't have any LOL!
~attrACTION~ said:LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.
Anyway, Ahmadinejad is lying and just joking around with America. I was in Iran last month, and they have homos there too. They hold hands in public and crap, just like in San Francisco. Actually, in Iran there are a lot of other things that most (American) people wouldn't believe. But hey that's a whole different topic.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's an interesting perspective; I didn't think of it that way, but it actually makes sense.AlexTheGreat said:Ahmadinejad was actually being serious when he said they don't have homos in Iran. That is, they don't have PUBLIC homosexuals. In Islam, homosexuality is a crime and if I recall correctly my friend told me it's punishable by death. That's why people are a lot more open in public there: because the fear of homosexuality doesn't exist, since it's against the law. Guys can kiss (peck, not make out) and hold hands there and it won't be considered gay.
It has nothing to do with nature!! Humans decide o do perverted things! By your logic hen it is ok to have sex with 4 year olds since hey can't give birth and thus good for population control! Huh?Stormbringer said:I honestly believe that homosexuality is one of nature's methods of population control.
Of course you judge people -quit being a hypocrite!!Stormbringer said:As long as the person's doing what they want to do, and as long as they're hurting nobody, it's fine with me. We're nobody to judge.