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Master Don Juan
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most gay guys I know say that they knew they were gay from about 13-15.Michele said:first off your 16... hes your little brother. he must be much younger than you im guessing... which makes him either middle school or elementary... he has no idea what hes talking about... and it's probably some "hip"-scene to be gay or something.
kinda like how the emo scene was thought to be high school... but if you walked around the mall you'd see 10 year olds wearing emo ****.
kids these days.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Actually, that's exactly when he would know.AlexTheGreat said:Does your bro watch TV shows with a gay theme (like Will and Grace or something)? If he's 13, then he can't know he's gay cuz he just hit puberty, and he either wants to or has been mentally programmed into wanting to.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.Ricky said:Apparently in Iran they don't have any LOL!
~attrACTION~ said:LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.
Anyway, Ahmadinejad is lying and just joking around with America. I was in Iran last month, and they have homos there too. They hold hands in public and crap, just like in San Francisco. Actually, in Iran there are a lot of other things that most (American) people wouldn't believe. But hey that's a whole different topic.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That's an interesting perspective; I didn't think of it that way, but it actually makes sense.AlexTheGreat said:Ahmadinejad was actually being serious when he said they don't have homos in Iran. That is, they don't have PUBLIC homosexuals. In Islam, homosexuality is a crime and if I recall correctly my friend told me it's punishable by death. That's why people are a lot more open in public there: because the fear of homosexuality doesn't exist, since it's against the law. Guys can kiss (peck, not make out) and hold hands there and it won't be considered gay.
It has nothing to do with nature!! Humans decide o do perverted things! By your logic hen it is ok to have sex with 4 year olds since hey can't give birth and thus good for population control! Huh?Stormbringer said:I honestly believe that homosexuality is one of nature's methods of population control.
Of course you judge people -quit being a hypocrite!!Stormbringer said:As long as the person's doing what they want to do, and as long as they're hurting nobody, it's fine with me. We're nobody to judge.