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Master Don Juan
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I wonder about that too. There was an awesome PUA over at ASF awhile ago who was bisexual.backbreaker said:better question.. how many gay people do you think we have HERE?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Most gay guys I know say that they knew they were gay from about 13-15.Michele said:first off your 16... hes your little brother. he must be much younger than you im guessing... which makes him either middle school or elementary... he has no idea what hes talking about... and it's probably some "hip"-scene to be gay or something.
kinda like how the emo scene was thought to be high school... but if you walked around the mall you'd see 10 year olds wearing emo ****.
kids these days.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Actually, that's exactly when he would know.AlexTheGreat said:Does your bro watch TV shows with a gay theme (like Will and Grace or something)? If he's 13, then he can't know he's gay cuz he just hit puberty, and he either wants to or has been mentally programmed into wanting to.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.Ricky said:Apparently in Iran they don't have any LOL!
~attrACTION~ said:LOL! I take it you read that Yahoo article. Funny thing is they re-edited afterwards because I tried to show that to someone, and it was funny.
Anyway, Ahmadinejad is lying and just joking around with America. I was in Iran last month, and they have homos there too. They hold hands in public and crap, just like in San Francisco. Actually, in Iran there are a lot of other things that most (American) people wouldn't believe. But hey that's a whole different topic.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That's an interesting perspective; I didn't think of it that way, but it actually makes sense.AlexTheGreat said:Ahmadinejad was actually being serious when he said they don't have homos in Iran. That is, they don't have PUBLIC homosexuals. In Islam, homosexuality is a crime and if I recall correctly my friend told me it's punishable by death. That's why people are a lot more open in public there: because the fear of homosexuality doesn't exist, since it's against the law. Guys can kiss (peck, not make out) and hold hands there and it won't be considered gay.
It has nothing to do with nature!! Humans decide o do perverted things! By your logic hen it is ok to have sex with 4 year olds since hey can't give birth and thus good for population control! Huh?Stormbringer said:I honestly believe that homosexuality is one of nature's methods of population control.
Of course you judge people -quit being a hypocrite!!Stormbringer said:As long as the person's doing what they want to do, and as long as they're hurting nobody, it's fine with me. We're nobody to judge.