"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rainman4707

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Yeah, as soon as i read "took her to movie" a siren went of in my head.

Dose'nt sound good if she has unfollowed you, same thing happened to me today, i had a good time with my girl though. I'm not bothered that she has blocked me because i had a good date with another woman three hours later.

@backseatjuan A woman was begging me to drive into town to meet her. I had drank that night so was over the drink drive limit. A highly thought of member was telling me to that i should of drove in & met her because she was DTF.
I cannot fathom why members advise people to risk losing their licence, job & livelihood just for a woman that might give them a kiss!!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GearsGod310

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You're still young and learning but you NEVER take a girl to a movie for the first date. First dates (especially) are for interacting and getting to know each other. How do you accomplish that if you're sitting next to her for 3 hours not talking? No big deal if she's not old enough to drink, there are 1000 other things you could do that would allow you to get to know her. You could have discussed interesting topics asked her questions and let your personality shine through. Most women are very communicative and silence makes them very uncomfortable and feeling awkward.

Yeah, she seemed kind of serious and cold because it sounds like you didn't do much to make things "fun" which is what all girls want. It's really not a huge surprise she unfollowed you on IG.

Next time, be more creative in your date choices and T-A-L-K to her. It helps to think of fun topics in advance.

Good luck.
Completely agree. I made a mistake making it a movie date. W.E she's long gone and I'm not trippen lol. Usually don't meet with girls as young as her. I always do drinks with other chicks my age. She was BAD though man that was the only thing pissing me off.
 
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