Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rainman4707

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Yeah, as soon as i read "took her to movie" a siren went of in my head.

Dose'nt sound good if she has unfollowed you, same thing happened to me today, i had a good time with my girl though. I'm not bothered that she has blocked me because i had a good date with another woman three hours later.

@backseatjuan A woman was begging me to drive into town to meet her. I had drank that night so was over the drink drive limit. A highly thought of member was telling me to that i should of drove in & met her because she was DTF.
I cannot fathom why members advise people to risk losing their licence, job & livelihood just for a woman that might give them a kiss!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dash Riprock said:
You're still young and learning but you NEVER take a girl to a movie for the first date. First dates (especially) are for interacting and getting to know each other. How do you accomplish that if you're sitting next to her for 3 hours not talking? No big deal if she's not old enough to drink, there are 1000 other things you could do that would allow you to get to know her. You could have discussed interesting topics asked her questions and let your personality shine through. Most women are very communicative and silence makes them very uncomfortable and feeling awkward.

Yeah, she seemed kind of serious and cold because it sounds like you didn't do much to make things "fun" which is what all girls want. It's really not a huge surprise she unfollowed you on IG.

Next time, be more creative in your date choices and T-A-L-K to her. It helps to think of fun topics in advance.

Good luck.
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Completely agree. I made a mistake making it a movie date. W.E she's long gone and I'm not trippen lol. Usually don't meet with girls as young as her. I always do drinks with other chicks my age. She was BAD though man that was the only thing pissing me off.
 
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