"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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listening to beta-emo music while chilling with a chick

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Let's say you've invited her to your place or have been invited to hers, or just relaxing inside your car. Is listening to this kind of music (such as Marilyn, Archive etc) a reflection of your own character?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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It actually is a reflexion of your mood or troubles but can she really understand?

Obviously if you listen to a sad song, there are some troubles in there that you might not even know about. On the contrary if you listen to something happier you have something to feel happy about! And you also vibe that!

My example for this is, I have 3 different playlists on youtube with songs especially for when I am alone with a woman and I know we will have sex. They are sensual songs that turn the mood in the room the way I want it to be.

Something more, I don't think Manson and Archive are emo music.
 

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I personally can't stand beta men or their expressions in stuff like music. Whenever a girl turns it on, I turn it off and tell her I don't listen to this garbage... haha...
 

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DonJuanit0 said:
Something more, I don't think Manson and Archive are emo music.
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I personally can't stand beta men or their expressions in stuff like music. Whenever a girl turns it on, I turn it off and tell her I don't listen to this garbage... haha...
:crackup: :crackup:
 

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Suspens said:
:crackup: :crackup:
It's funny, but it's also serious. Watching stuff like the uruk-hais and orcs in lotr and acting along with it, for example here, here and here and many other parts with stuff like the ringwraiths attacking the hobbits at Weathertop, makes me feel better and like I'm exercising my testosterone. It really does.

While doing stuff like unintentionally listening to Ed Sheeran makes me feel anger. I mentally can't stand it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AttackFormation said:
I personally can't stand beta men or their expressions in stuff like music. Whenever a girl turns it on, I turn it off and tell her I don't listen to this garbage... haha...
My thoughts exactly
 
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