"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
listening to beta-emo music while chilling with a chick
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- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Obviously if you listen to a sad song, there are some troubles in there that you might not even know about. On the contrary if you listen to something happier you have something to feel happy about! And you also vibe that!
My example for this is, I have 3 different playlists on youtube with songs especially for when I am alone with a woman and I know we will have sex. They are sensual songs that turn the mood in the room the way I want it to be.
Something more, I don't think Manson and Archive are emo music.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
It's funny, but it's also serious. Watching stuff like the uruk-hais and orcs in lotr and acting along with it, for example here, here and here and many other parts with stuff like the ringwraiths attacking the hobbits at Weathertop, makes me feel better and like I'm exercising my testosterone. It really does.Suspens said:
While doing stuff like unintentionally listening to Ed Sheeran makes me feel anger. I mentally can't stand it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
My thoughts exactlyAttackFormation said: