"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
listening to beta-emo music while chilling with a chick
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Obviously if you listen to a sad song, there are some troubles in there that you might not even know about. On the contrary if you listen to something happier you have something to feel happy about! And you also vibe that!
My example for this is, I have 3 different playlists on youtube with songs especially for when I am alone with a woman and I know we will have sex. They are sensual songs that turn the mood in the room the way I want it to be.
Something more, I don't think Manson and Archive are emo music.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
It's funny, but it's also serious. Watching stuff like the uruk-hais and orcs in lotr and acting along with it, for example here, here and here and many other parts with stuff like the ringwraiths attacking the hobbits at Weathertop, makes me feel better and like I'm exercising my testosterone. It really does.Suspens said:
While doing stuff like unintentionally listening to Ed Sheeran makes me feel anger. I mentally can't stand it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
My thoughts exactlyAttackFormation said: