"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
listening to beta-emo music while chilling with a chick
- Thread starter Suspens
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Obviously if you listen to a sad song, there are some troubles in there that you might not even know about. On the contrary if you listen to something happier you have something to feel happy about! And you also vibe that!
My example for this is, I have 3 different playlists on youtube with songs especially for when I am alone with a woman and I know we will have sex. They are sensual songs that turn the mood in the room the way I want it to be.
Something more, I don't think Manson and Archive are emo music.
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
AttackFormation
Master Don Juan
It's funny, but it's also serious. Watching stuff like the uruk-hais and orcs in lotr and acting along with it, for example here, here and here and many other parts with stuff like the ringwraiths attacking the hobbits at Weathertop, makes me feel better and like I'm exercising my testosterone. It really does.Suspens said:
While doing stuff like unintentionally listening to Ed Sheeran makes me feel anger. I mentally can't stand it.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
NSX-R
Master Don Juan
My thoughts exactlyAttackFormation said: