"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Liquid Confidence

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Originally posted by Maybnoob
LMAO At you americans who cant drink till your 21 :crackup:
stfu
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Maybnoob
LMAO At you americans who cant drink till your 21 :crackup:
I've been drinking since I was 16. The law hasn't stopped me any.
 

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Tons of americans drink at 16. It adds extra thrill when you aren't suposed to be doing it. lol.
 

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In the South we drink strong liquor like fishies :D
And it does add excitement when your not supposed to.... but nobody really cares.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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u can make lots of friends drinking.

think of all those people you have to call and apologize to the next day!
 

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lol too true. And if you drink too much you might puke. One night I drank some fruity wine that wa my parents. Well I didn't know not to drink it like beer. lol. But wine sucks. lol.
 

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Ooohh man, I've been down this road before.

Drinking is liquid confidence, that's for sure. Just don't let it become a crutch, and don't let your drinking get out of hand. There IS a limit to how much you drink, and it's not attractive when you reach that limit. I found that out when we were partying with some hot chicks and I puked all over myself after having 10 shots of vodka (and I'm a lightweight).

Of course I can't drink anymore for the time being because I'm on accutane and I don't want to fvck up my liver.
 

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Ohh I have heard of the dreaded acutane. Ma friend was on it and said it was like birth control for men. But it seemed to work. The accutane I mean. lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by 08aisaac
Ohh I have heard of the dreaded acutane. Ma friend was on it and said it was like birth control for men. But it seemed to work. The accutane I mean. lol
Heh yeah. It works though, I'm dry as a bone and I don't really have any active acne. Not being able to drink is a bummer, but I can hold off for the next 4 months.
 

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Heh yeah. It works though, I'm dry as a bone and I don't really have any active acne. Not being able to drink is a bummer, but I can hold off for the next 4 months.
:eek: four months? dude just use benzoyal peroxide. look through my replies u'll find an explanation of it.
 

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Originally posted by dannowillbookem
:eek: four months? dude just use benzoyal peroxide. look through my replies u'll find an explanation of it.
I used benzoyl peroxide before I went on accutane. I was on the regimen at acne.org that whole time, and it worked for a little while, but then hormones must have kicked in because the acne got a lot worse.

It's all good though, according to my doctor I'll be clear for months after my course (hopefully). I'm clear right now, and that's all I can really wish for!
 

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ALWAYS REMEMBER CHILDREN

liqour before beer, your all in the clear.
beer before liqour, youve never felt sicker
and I live down here in florida and im 18 now so i got alot of friends who look 21 so imma hard drinker (151 for life) esp now thats its summer but school is coming up so im cutting down but anytime your at a party with beer and liqour remember that slogan its true and it has helped me plenty.
 
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