undesputable
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stfu
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Liquid Confidence
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
dumb euro.
dont make us suck u into another war! lol
strams4ever
Don Juan
In the South we drink strong liquor like fishies 
And it does add excitement when your not supposed to.... but nobody really cares.
And it does add excitement when your not supposed to.... but nobody really cares.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
u can make lots of friends drinking.
think of all those people you have to call and apologize to the next day!
think of all those people you have to call and apologize to the next day!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
:crackup: chugging wine. u madman!
Sir Lancelot
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Ooohh man, I've been down this road before.
Drinking is liquid confidence, that's for sure. Just don't let it become a crutch, and don't let your drinking get out of hand. There IS a limit to how much you drink, and it's not attractive when you reach that limit. I found that out when we were partying with some hot chicks and I puked all over myself after having 10 shots of vodka (and I'm a lightweight).
Of course I can't drink anymore for the time being because I'm on accutane and I don't want to fvck up my liver.
Drinking is liquid confidence, that's for sure. Just don't let it become a crutch, and don't let your drinking get out of hand. There IS a limit to how much you drink, and it's not attractive when you reach that limit. I found that out when we were partying with some hot chicks and I puked all over myself after having 10 shots of vodka (and I'm a lightweight).
Of course I can't drink anymore for the time being because I'm on accutane and I don't want to fvck up my liver.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Sir Lancelot
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Heh yeah. It works though, I'm dry as a bone and I don't really have any active acne. Not being able to drink is a bummer, but I can hold off for the next 4 months.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
four months? dude just use benzoyal peroxide. look through my replies u'll find an explanation of it.Sir Lancelot
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I used benzoyl peroxide before I went on accutane. I was on the regimen at acne.org that whole time, and it worked for a little while, but then hormones must have kicked in because the acne got a lot worse.Originally posted by dannowillbookem
It's all good though, according to my doctor I'll be clear for months after my course (hopefully). I'm clear right now, and that's all I can really wish for!
ALWAYS REMEMBER CHILDREN
liqour before beer, your all in the clear.
beer before liqour, youve never felt sicker
and I live down here in florida and im 18 now so i got alot of friends who look 21 so imma hard drinker (151 for life) esp now thats its summer but school is coming up so im cutting down but anytime your at a party with beer and liqour remember that slogan its true and it has helped me plenty.
liqour before beer, your all in the clear.
beer before liqour, youve never felt sicker
and I live down here in florida and im 18 now so i got alot of friends who look 21 so imma hard drinker (151 for life) esp now thats its summer but school is coming up so im cutting down but anytime your at a party with beer and liqour remember that slogan its true and it has helped me plenty.