undesputable
Master Don Juan
stfu
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Liquid Confidence
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
dumb euro.
dont make us suck u into another war! lol
strams4ever
Don Juan
In the South we drink strong liquor like fishies 
And it does add excitement when your not supposed to.... but nobody really cares.
And it does add excitement when your not supposed to.... but nobody really cares.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
u can make lots of friends drinking.
think of all those people you have to call and apologize to the next day!
think of all those people you have to call and apologize to the next day!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
:crackup: chugging wine. u madman!
Sir Lancelot
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Ooohh man, I've been down this road before.
Drinking is liquid confidence, that's for sure. Just don't let it become a crutch, and don't let your drinking get out of hand. There IS a limit to how much you drink, and it's not attractive when you reach that limit. I found that out when we were partying with some hot chicks and I puked all over myself after having 10 shots of vodka (and I'm a lightweight).
Of course I can't drink anymore for the time being because I'm on accutane and I don't want to fvck up my liver.
Drinking is liquid confidence, that's for sure. Just don't let it become a crutch, and don't let your drinking get out of hand. There IS a limit to how much you drink, and it's not attractive when you reach that limit. I found that out when we were partying with some hot chicks and I puked all over myself after having 10 shots of vodka (and I'm a lightweight).
Of course I can't drink anymore for the time being because I'm on accutane and I don't want to fvck up my liver.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Sir Lancelot
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Heh yeah. It works though, I'm dry as a bone and I don't really have any active acne. Not being able to drink is a bummer, but I can hold off for the next 4 months.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
four months? dude just use benzoyal peroxide. look through my replies u'll find an explanation of it.Sir Lancelot
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I used benzoyl peroxide before I went on accutane. I was on the regimen at acne.org that whole time, and it worked for a little while, but then hormones must have kicked in because the acne got a lot worse.Originally posted by dannowillbookem
It's all good though, according to my doctor I'll be clear for months after my course (hopefully). I'm clear right now, and that's all I can really wish for!
ALWAYS REMEMBER CHILDREN
liqour before beer, your all in the clear.
beer before liqour, youve never felt sicker
and I live down here in florida and im 18 now so i got alot of friends who look 21 so imma hard drinker (151 for life) esp now thats its summer but school is coming up so im cutting down but anytime your at a party with beer and liqour remember that slogan its true and it has helped me plenty.
liqour before beer, your all in the clear.
beer before liqour, youve never felt sicker
and I live down here in florida and im 18 now so i got alot of friends who look 21 so imma hard drinker (151 for life) esp now thats its summer but school is coming up so im cutting down but anytime your at a party with beer and liqour remember that slogan its true and it has helped me plenty.