"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Just move on with your life. This will keep happening no matter what.
I was completely straightforward. I've done both before, in terms of fading away or being straightforward. It doesn't matter what you do.LeonSK said:
What matters is that you give up any hope of ever being with her. The sooner you free yourself from any specter of her, the better for you in the long run.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
But dude you should make a move when youre chilling with her.
It's not so hard, kino, escalate, tease and kiss her, believe me she will go along with it if she likes you and maybe afterwards be very confused or anything like that, you remain cool.
Your job is to escalate let her think about the 'relationship' wheter she sees you as a friend or not.
If she rejects you act like it didn't affect you, stay positive and then just go ghost or keep her around to introduce you to her friends. If being only friends with her hurts you, then move on and don't look back.
This is easier said than done for beginners. I don't know if OP is just starting out, but if he is, it's better to just start with women you don't know. The psychological factor isn't there.TheGambino said:
And hopefully OP isn't like me and keeps picking girls with bfs.
Yeah, I'm just starting out, ended a long-term relationship a couple months ago.teddy said:
Gambino's idea sounds good! One more issue, she likes to drag a girlfriend of her while hanging out with me, it has happened twice. I hate it...
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
If you just started out and been friendzoned more often, then you should indeed find new girls and learn to be sexual from the start with them. If you make moves, you'll never get friendzoned, either she's in for the bang or she gives you mixed signals (=low interest) or even a rejection(so what just move on to the next..).
LeonSK, she brings a friend with her while hanging out, that's a big red flag.. You should def move on from this one, she does that to prevent you from making escalating moves on her.
Yeah, I find that with people like me who lack experience, while what you're saying is correct, invariably me and other beginners won't be able to fully free ourselves from our mindframe and end up making the thing complicated and awkward. And because we're beginners, we just don't have a lot of plates spinning.TheGambino said:
If we're not good at this, it's probably best to cut the cord and go ghost and forget about her. That way you can develop your skills with women you have no hang ups on. If you somehow run into her years from now, then you'll be able to approach her with your new skills and, if she's available, all to your advantage.
Obviously, with more experienced people, they have a lot of plates and little to lose, so there's nothing to lose with your approach, it's the best one.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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DonJuanit0
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What if I told you they get angry to themselves for not making it?!?teddy said:
Of course she can get turned on! She didn't make it, so you become a challenge! Obviously it will not always be the same but it can happen since you won over her tricks!