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Lights on, lights off?

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Recently a question popped into my head....

The last few girls I've dated and had sex with. (In the light) Told me they never had sex in the light before. They said they always did it in a dark room, under the sheets, or bathroom with the lights off and ect.

So do woman differ whether they prefer a dark or light place when having sex? Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?

Curious to hear what you guys think or had a similar situation.
 

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blackbelt2k

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i like lights on...always.. or at least dimly lit, so i can see what she's doing and make sure the hole is nice and no dirty
 

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Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?
This one.

I'm a very visual man, so I prefer a reasonable well lit room or daylight. Pitch dark, under the sheets is not much of a turn on for me. Hence, I go for women who are at ease with their bodies.
 

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What percentage of women do you guess like the lights off? If it's a good portion, then I don't think I'm going to have as much trouble with sex as I thought. I mean anybody can have sex in a dark room. What's there to be nervous about when you can barely see anything?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm a visual man myself. I prefer the lights on but in the dark im fine with too. But, like i was saying. The last few girls i've dated said they never have done it in the light before until with me. So is there a reason for this??
 

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blueguy

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WTF? That sounds really strange.

ALL the girls I've dated have done it in light settings. What's fun about having sex in the dark? YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING~!!! :crazy:

If I dated a girl who said to me, "No, turn the lights off," I'd go crazy!
 
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