"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lights on, lights off?

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Recently a question popped into my head....

The last few girls I've dated and had sex with. (In the light) Told me they never had sex in the light before. They said they always did it in a dark room, under the sheets, or bathroom with the lights off and ect.

So do woman differ whether they prefer a dark or light place when having sex? Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?

Curious to hear what you guys think or had a similar situation.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blackbelt2k

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i like lights on...always.. or at least dimly lit, so i can see what she's doing and make sure the hole is nice and no dirty
 

Dark Chivalry

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Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?
This one.

I'm a very visual man, so I prefer a reasonable well lit room or daylight. Pitch dark, under the sheets is not much of a turn on for me. Hence, I go for women who are at ease with their bodies.
 

knglerxt

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What percentage of women do you guess like the lights off? If it's a good portion, then I don't think I'm going to have as much trouble with sex as I thought. I mean anybody can have sex in a dark room. What's there to be nervous about when you can barely see anything?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm a visual man myself. I prefer the lights on but in the dark im fine with too. But, like i was saying. The last few girls i've dated said they never have done it in the light before until with me. So is there a reason for this??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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blueguy

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WTF? That sounds really strange.

ALL the girls I've dated have done it in light settings. What's fun about having sex in the dark? YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING~!!! :crazy:

If I dated a girl who said to me, "No, turn the lights off," I'd go crazy!
 
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