Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Lights on, lights off?

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Recently a question popped into my head....

The last few girls I've dated and had sex with. (In the light) Told me they never had sex in the light before. They said they always did it in a dark room, under the sheets, or bathroom with the lights off and ect.

So do woman differ whether they prefer a dark or light place when having sex? Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?

Curious to hear what you guys think or had a similar situation.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blackbelt2k

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i like lights on...always.. or at least dimly lit, so i can see what she's doing and make sure the hole is nice and no dirty
 

Dark Chivalry

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Or maybe a insecurity issue with their body so they like the dark?
This one.

I'm a very visual man, so I prefer a reasonable well lit room or daylight. Pitch dark, under the sheets is not much of a turn on for me. Hence, I go for women who are at ease with their bodies.
 

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What percentage of women do you guess like the lights off? If it's a good portion, then I don't think I'm going to have as much trouble with sex as I thought. I mean anybody can have sex in a dark room. What's there to be nervous about when you can barely see anything?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm a visual man myself. I prefer the lights on but in the dark im fine with too. But, like i was saying. The last few girls i've dated said they never have done it in the light before until with me. So is there a reason for this??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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blueguy

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WTF? That sounds really strange.

ALL the girls I've dated have done it in light settings. What's fun about having sex in the dark? YOU CAN'T SEE ANYTHING~!!! :crazy:

If I dated a girl who said to me, "No, turn the lights off," I'd go crazy!
 
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