"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter Purefilth
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
TheStig said:
Im a BEAST.New routine now - was 3 days on, one day off - push, pull, legs but I found myself pulling in 4 days a lot of the time
So, Now the routine - which started last week is
Shoulders
Legs
Push
Pull
So, Shoulders today- followed by legs tomorrow, since doing a push or pull day would involve engaging the shoulder muscles while they're still a state of repair.
Then Push Day - 48 hours after shoulders day gives plenty of recovery time for the delts - which are obviously engaged heavily here. If theyre not fully healed or I want to do back - It isnt an issue to switch up here.
Finally pull Day - those days with excess energy may wel be put into Deadllifting - 48 Hours after leg day - again to give the glutes and hams a decent 48 Hr recovery time.
So Input if you wish to, and i will probably ignore you cos I'm a stubborn mutherfukker and Ive made my mind up.:rock:
Shoulders went well today - really enjoyed these and since push day is more heavily focused on the chest now, I gave the delts one of their own.
Pull ups to fail - Wide Grip. Good Start.
Standing OH press.
40 kg x 12 x 3 (to the back of the neck)
50 kgx 12 x 2 (down to the chest) funny shiit is - one of my girls weighs this much:crackup:
Standing row
40 kg x 12 x 4
(some wide dips, nice and slow to keep the muscle stretched)
Dirty 30's 3 sets. (Good burn) - look back at how these are done on previous posts you lazy mufukkers.
Single arm delt fly
12.5 each arm - 4 sets x 12 reps/set
2 sets abwork
decline delt fly (both arms)
10.2 each side - 3 sets 12
Rope pull(triceps and delt)
24 kg 4 sets 12
(all weights in KG - 2.2Lb = 1Kg blahblahblah
)Love the feeling after this day, walking tall and wide boyzz
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Rope attached to the cable machine. Straight arms, pull down - hits delta, obliques abs a bit too.TheStig said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
12 x 30 kg
10 x 40 kg
8 x 50 kg
6 x 60 kg
4 x 70 kg
the high weight reps (half of the 60kg set and the 70kg set) had a little help on the start of the curl, but i held them bishes and made the negatives count!
then reverse curls
35kg x 12
35kg x 12
35kg x 12
good ole pump on the arms
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
cba to type up - just had a filling done and feel kinda ****ty after
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Incline press pushed=> 98kg 1rep
chest press pushed =>98kg reps
then 3 sets 8 on 84 kg
pushed for full stack on both, but didnt have the heart today
3 sets 12 dips close grip bodyweight
3 sets 8 dips wide grip bodyweight
12 pullups bodyweight
Cable Fly 17.9 Kg each side 3 sets 12
behind head - to oh lift (laid on bench)
20 kg 3 sets 12
(can do more next time, couldnt be arsed to go upstairs for bigger DB)
and thats about it
looks like little but weighs a lot
(I'm 93 Kg for the bodyweight dips and I go DEEEEEEP)
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
^ DMP's like mad across the pecks!Back day
Wide grip Pullups x 12 x 2sets
seated row wide grip
56 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
Yates's row
70 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
seated row close grip
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 8
bicep curls
20 kg x 8 x 2sets each hand
back = SWOLE
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Fvkkin 'DeepHeat' Time
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Hope you heal up fast man.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Oh And lymecycline - for acne
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Deep heat twice last night (the spray on stuff). Totally amazing job! OK Im a little tight still, but damn painful yesterday.
Happydays
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
also threw in biceps and reverse curls again.
Sunny as hell today - almost too hot to lift!
Fuglydude
Master Don Juan
Getting enough sleep I hope? Sometimes I find that training antagonistic muscle groups can help when a certain group is sore. For example, doing push work can be a good thing when your back is sore, etc.
Keep at it man. Also, I sent you a PM on a completely unrelated matter!
You must spread some reputation around before giving it to Purefilth again.Purefilth said:seated row wide grip
56 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 12
Yates's row
70 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
90 kg x 12
seated row close grip
91 x 12
91 x 12
91 x 8
back = SWOLE
Good lord, with volume and weight like that you'll have the back of Atlas or Hercules in no time if you don't already! That's fvckin nuts man, great work
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
TheStig said:
Guess what day it is tomorrow
Chest done today - nothing special - just a 40 minute session, bench, inclineDB, dips and dirty 30's
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.