"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Time to get my **** together.
Things I want to accomplish:
1. Get active social life
2. Get active love life
3. Get healthy (eat right, and work out daily!)
4. Get a good part time job during school
5. Get good grades and graduate with honors this fall
6. Get money to finally buy a car and pay for social life

Ive been slowly making progress on these things this year but I feel like keeping a journal will help motivate me to work harder than before! Updates will come nightly!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Try to set small, achievable goals that will lead to these. It will help keep you motivated. Start getting your 5-a-day, set the number of workouts you can realistically do next week and do it. Send out a certain number of job applications next week and increase it the week after.

If you try do too much at once, it may make it harder to succeed.

Goodluck!
 
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been screwing up the past couple days. my biggest hurdle here is eating right. if i eat junk, then i end up not feeling well and all my energy gets zapped, so oteher areas of my life suffer. i really really need to commit to eating healthy if i want to clean up the other areas of my life. ive even been to ashamed to update this the past couple days. ugh.
 
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oxford comma said:
been screwing up the past couple days. my biggest hurdle here is eating right. if i eat junk, then i end up not feeling well and all my energy gets zapped, so oteher areas of my life suffer. i really really need to commit to eating healthy if i want to clean up the other areas of my life. ive even been to ashamed to update this the past couple days. ugh.
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I know how it is brother. My eating is totally f*cked because I've totally destroyed my natural hunger instinct through years of being precribed amphetamine(AKA Adderal AKA speed) when I was growing up so I usually go through 2/3rds of a day before my body will even signal to my brain that I should eat something.


Pros: I don't have much desire to eat junk food

Cons: Trying to eat anything most of the time feels like I'm trying to stuff additional food down my throat after having just consumed like five course feast.

Hang in there dude.
 
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