"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Time to get my **** together.
Things I want to accomplish:
1. Get active social life
2. Get active love life
3. Get healthy (eat right, and work out daily!)
4. Get a good part time job during school
5. Get good grades and graduate with honors this fall
6. Get money to finally buy a car and pay for social life

Ive been slowly making progress on these things this year but I feel like keeping a journal will help motivate me to work harder than before! Updates will come nightly!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Try to set small, achievable goals that will lead to these. It will help keep you motivated. Start getting your 5-a-day, set the number of workouts you can realistically do next week and do it. Send out a certain number of job applications next week and increase it the week after.

If you try do too much at once, it may make it harder to succeed.

Goodluck!
 
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been screwing up the past couple days. my biggest hurdle here is eating right. if i eat junk, then i end up not feeling well and all my energy gets zapped, so oteher areas of my life suffer. i really really need to commit to eating healthy if i want to clean up the other areas of my life. ive even been to ashamed to update this the past couple days. ugh.
 
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oxford comma said:
been screwing up the past couple days. my biggest hurdle here is eating right. if i eat junk, then i end up not feeling well and all my energy gets zapped, so oteher areas of my life suffer. i really really need to commit to eating healthy if i want to clean up the other areas of my life. ive even been to ashamed to update this the past couple days. ugh.
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I know how it is brother. My eating is totally f*cked because I've totally destroyed my natural hunger instinct through years of being precribed amphetamine(AKA Adderal AKA speed) when I was growing up so I usually go through 2/3rds of a day before my body will even signal to my brain that I should eat something.


Pros: I don't have much desire to eat junk food

Cons: Trying to eat anything most of the time feels like I'm trying to stuff additional food down my throat after having just consumed like five course feast.

Hang in there dude.
 
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