"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
lets play, INTERACTIVE DJ!
- Thread starter TTAG
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TTAG, this is pretty stupid. What you should do is have one continuous thread, like frankcd's "44 year old needs dating advice" (where is that guy anyway), then you post the info. We give advice, you post your next step, we give advice, this here is really stupid and people will vote dumb just to sabotage things. Furthermore, how do you know you're including all the right options? I'm tempted to vote stupidly myself. Furthermore, you have not given us nearly enough information to even vote on this first and simplest of polls.
TTAG
Don Juan
Dude-
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TTAG
Don Juan
ok, all ready!
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys