"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lets play, INTERACTIVE DJ!
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
TTAG, this is pretty stupid. What you should do is have one continuous thread, like frankcd's "44 year old needs dating advice" (where is that guy anyway), then you post the info. We give advice, you post your next step, we give advice, this here is really stupid and people will vote dumb just to sabotage things. Furthermore, how do you know you're including all the right options? I'm tempted to vote stupidly myself. Furthermore, you have not given us nearly enough information to even vote on this first and simplest of polls.
TTAG
Don Juan
Dude-
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TTAG
Don Juan
ok, all ready!
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys