"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lets play, INTERACTIVE DJ!
- Thread starter TTAG
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
TTAG, this is pretty stupid. What you should do is have one continuous thread, like frankcd's "44 year old needs dating advice" (where is that guy anyway), then you post the info. We give advice, you post your next step, we give advice, this here is really stupid and people will vote dumb just to sabotage things. Furthermore, how do you know you're including all the right options? I'm tempted to vote stupidly myself. Furthermore, you have not given us nearly enough information to even vote on this first and simplest of polls.
TTAG
Don Juan
Dude-
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
seriously make your own decisions. If your asking these questions, you know the basic rules of the game and the consequences and benefits of breakign them.
Ball up and make your decision.
If you need to talk to a couple friends, so you can hear what you already decided on a detail is right, do it. But taking a poll from a website is weird and most guys here have very little experience and have no idea what they are talking about.
Yeah, all the details add up. But long as its not wierd, if shes interested, if the call is in 12 hours or 13 isnt going to make a difference.
-Mac
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
TTAG
Don Juan
ok, all ready!
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys
looks like no-one likes my concept.
thanks for the support DonJohn83.
im NOT doing this for me, i was doing it so other people could learn through a real life practical experience. not just all this theory.
i know what to do, i have already bagged me 11 girls in the sack, and im sure this one will be number 12.
lighten up guys