"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let the scars guide.

darktriadism

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Since ending a BPD relationship and swallowing the red pill and finding this site, it took a couple of months to finally manage to get my life on track and better.
These scars will help avoid the crazies all your life.

Just dodged another bullet.

This super cute chick being interested and playing back with the negs while being super submissive and seemingly in frame at all times.

Well her push pull seemed like normal girl push pulls, but seemed familiar to the BPD I knew before.

At the moment spinning other plates and having a strong frame, felt that gut feeling and checked out her Instagram.

-Dog obsessed
-Openly talked about her having depression and bulimia
-Hardcore push pull and coquette
-Definitely rotating other guys
-Saw her around with betas strolling around the college
-Talked about narcissism


Overtly told her that it was awesome knowing her but we are too similar to get along.

Im not looking to invest another minute into her unless she just tells me to bang her at HER place. How do you game this girl for a PnD?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you go visit the devil for Dinner if he called you up wanting to hang?
 

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
 

darktriadism

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
I generally screen women I want to invest in even in a rotation.
I've invested 4 days on her and know an ONS would be an ROI.
Just trying to cash out and was looking for an opinion on how to do that with her.
 
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