"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let the scars guide.

darktriadism

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Since ending a BPD relationship and swallowing the red pill and finding this site, it took a couple of months to finally manage to get my life on track and better.
These scars will help avoid the crazies all your life.

Just dodged another bullet.

This super cute chick being interested and playing back with the negs while being super submissive and seemingly in frame at all times.

Well her push pull seemed like normal girl push pulls, but seemed familiar to the BPD I knew before.

At the moment spinning other plates and having a strong frame, felt that gut feeling and checked out her Instagram.

-Dog obsessed
-Openly talked about her having depression and bulimia
-Hardcore push pull and coquette
-Definitely rotating other guys
-Saw her around with betas strolling around the college
-Talked about narcissism


Overtly told her that it was awesome knowing her but we are too similar to get along.

Im not looking to invest another minute into her unless she just tells me to bang her at HER place. How do you game this girl for a PnD?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Would you go visit the devil for Dinner if he called you up wanting to hang?
 

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
 

darktriadism

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First, you say you dodged a bullet.

Then, your entire post sounds like you're screening her for an LTR.

Finally, you ask for help with a ONS.

Figure out what you want first.
I generally screen women I want to invest in even in a rotation.
I've invested 4 days on her and know an ONS would be an ROI.
Just trying to cash out and was looking for an opinion on how to do that with her.
 
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